I joined find a grave yesterday and found all of the relatives we lost in the first world war, added the photos I had and left messages and virtual flowers. Strangely John Edwards already had flowers from someone so I emailed and asked if they were related. The person, am presuming it is a lady, has emailed back and said she is not related, but his grave had no flowers and she puts virtual flowers on lots of graves. What a nice gesture. I have thanked her on behalf of all the families. Linda